{"id":3329,"date":"2019-02-10T18:57:20","date_gmt":"2019-02-10T17:57:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serwer1768828.home.pl\/autoinstalator\/wordpress\/?p=3329"},"modified":"2019-02-10T20:35:24","modified_gmt":"2019-02-10T19:35:24","slug":"to-nie-jest-pozycja-proszaca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/?p=3329","title":{"rendered":"Praktycznie i romantycznie, czyli o czym jest mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jak by\u0142o?<br \/>\n&#8211; Do dupy.<\/p>\n<p>I ja ju\u017c wiem, \u017ce by\u0142 pewien, \u017ce sobie poradz\u0119, on ju\u017c wie jak by\u0142o, oboje wiemy, \u017ce czas na wsp\u00f3lne odreagowanie.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Przemy\u015bl to jeszcze raz, pojed\u017a ze mn\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Rybcia, nie stawiaj mnie w takiej sytuacji, mnie by tam krew zala\u0142a i zepsu\u0142bym ci zabaw\u0119.<\/p>\n<p>Musia\u0142am spr\u00f3bowa\u0107, ale nie zmuszam go. Wiem, \u017ce nic nie wsk\u00f3ram. On nie zrobi nic wbrew sobie. Ja te\u017c wbrew sobie niczego nie robi\u0119, nawet dla niego. On to wie. Mnie te\u017c nigdy nie stawia przed takim wyborem. Wolno\u015b\u0107 jest dla nas w tym zwi\u0105zku bardzo wa\u017cna. Idzie w parze z szacunkiem.<\/p>\n<p>Nie zawsze jest powa\u017cnie, a w\u0142a\u015bciwie powa\u017cnie jest bardzo rzadko&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Potrzebuj\u0119 twojej pomocy.<br \/>\n&#8211; To nie jest pozycja prosz\u0105ca.<\/p>\n<p>I ju\u017c wiem, \u017ce sprawa za\u0142atwiona. Znam ten tekst od lat, cho\u0107 brzmi strasznie obciachowo, jest muzyk\u0105 dla moich uszu.<\/p>\n<p>\u017bycie ze sob\u0105 spowodowa\u0142o, \u017ce r\u00f3wnolegle poznawa\u0142am dwoje ludzi. Latami tworzyli\u015bmy system, kt\u00f3ry porz\u0105dkuje dzi\u015b nasz wsp\u00f3lny \u015bwiat. Rozmawiamy emocjami, spojrzeniem, prowadzimy dialogi bez zb\u0119dnych s\u0142\u00f3w. To jest wypracowane. Kompromisem, ca\u0142\u0105 stert\u0105 niepisanych um\u00f3w. Chore indywidualne ambicje zostawiamy przed domem. Do \u015brodka wnosimy tylko te wsp\u00f3lne. Ale negocjacje wci\u0105\u017c trwaj\u0105. Mamy pokor\u0119 wobec tego co nam si\u0119 uda\u0142o. Wiemy, \u017ce niczego nie mo\u017cna bra\u0107 za pewniak. To co dzi\u015b mamy, jutro mo\u017ce odej\u015b\u0107. <strong>TRZEBA PODLEWA\u0106 CO NASZE<\/strong>. Naucza\u0107 i si\u0119 uczy\u0107. <strong>On jest pragmatykiem z krwi i ko\u015bci, ja idealistk\u0105, romantykiem, marzycielk\u0105.\u00a0<\/strong>Przeciwie\u0144stwa si\u0119 przyciagaj\u0105.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3335\" src=\"https:\/\/serwer1768828.home.pl\/autoinstalator\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51849558_1316203478521098_4611190353431625728_n-265x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"265\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51849558_1316203478521098_4611190353431625728_n-265x300.jpg 265w, http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51849558_1316203478521098_4611190353431625728_n-768x869.jpg 768w, http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51849558_1316203478521098_4611190353431625728_n.jpg 848w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 265px) 100vw, 265px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wszystko zaskakuj\u0105co dobrze gra. Bywa, \u017ce trzeba pogada\u0107. Ale serialowe &#8222;porozmawiajmy&#8221; nigdy nie pada. To wychodzi naturalnie. Rzadko jest krzyk, to wy\u0142\u0105cznie moja emocja. On nigdy nie krzyczy, chyba, \u017ce musi. M\u00f3j krzyk, poza typowym wkurwem Pani domu, pojawia si\u0119 te\u017c najcz\u0119\u015bciej podczas popo\u0142udniowej g\u0142upawki &#8211; jestem ju\u017c taka stara, a wci\u0105\u017c p\u0142aczem reaguj\u0119 na jego &#8222;gilgotki&#8221;. On jest jeszcze starszy, a wci\u0105\u017c uparcie gilgotaniem zwalcza moj\u0105 z\u0142o\u015bliwo\u015b\u0107. M\u00f3j dziadek powiedzia\u0142by, \u017ce to takie 'durnowate&#8217;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Super, \u017ce wieczorem mog\u0119 po\u0142o\u017cy\u0107 g\u0142ow\u0119 na ukochanym ramieniu, a kiedy on masuje mi nieporadnie moj\u0105 zm\u0119czon\u0105 g\u0142ow\u0119 (on wie, \u017ce to dzia\u0142a znacznie lepiej, ni\u017c tysi\u0105c oklepanych i nic nie znacz\u0105cych s\u0142\u00f3w otuchy), ja mog\u0119 w dupie mie\u0107 ca\u0142e g\u00f3wno minionego dnia&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Aleksandra, ty jeste\u015b k***a taka romantyczna! &#8211; ca\u0142y poranek siedzisz na kom\u00f3rce, a MI\u0141O\u015a\u0106 UCIEKA CI\u00a0 MI\u0118DZY PALCAMI! &#8211; parodiowanie romantyk\u00f3w wychodzi mu najlepiej, haha&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 jest o tym, \u017ce patrzysz i t\u0119sknisz za dotykiem. I o tym, \u017ce dotykasz i t\u0119sknisz za widokiem. A kiedy patrzysz i dotykasz, nie t\u0119sknisz ju\u017c za niczym.<\/p>\n<p>Wrzucam to na bloga, zn\u00f3w b\u0119d\u0119 gilgotana, zn\u00f3w b\u0119d\u0119 p\u0142aka\u0107, zn\u00f3w b\u0119dzie durnowato.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3336\" src=\"https:\/\/serwer1768828.home.pl\/autoinstalator\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51863880_2366425603588690_5925743486115512320_n-188x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"188\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51863880_2366425603588690_5925743486115512320_n-188x300.jpg 188w, http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/51863880_2366425603588690_5925743486115512320_n.jpg 601w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 188px) 100vw, 188px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jak by\u0142o? &#8211; Do dupy. I ja ju\u017c wiem, \u017ce by\u0142 pewien, \u017ce sobie poradz\u0119, on ju\u017c wie jak by\u0142o, oboje wiemy, \u017ce czas na wsp\u00f3lne odreagowanie. &#8211; Przemy\u015bl to jeszcze raz, pojed\u017a ze mn\u0105. &#8211; Rybcia, nie stawiaj mnie w takiej sytuacji, mnie by tam krew zala\u0142a i zepsu\u0142bym ci zabaw\u0119. Musia\u0142am spr\u00f3bowa\u0107, 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