{"id":3066,"date":"2018-08-15T22:56:09","date_gmt":"2018-08-15T21:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serwer1768828.home.pl\/autoinstalator\/wordpress\/?p=3066"},"modified":"2018-08-16T18:59:50","modified_gmt":"2018-08-16T17:59:50","slug":"rodzinne-auto-rodziny-nie-tworzy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/oktorejkawa.com\/?p=3066","title":{"rendered":"Najmniejsze pa\u0144stwo \u015bwiata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rodzinne auto, a nawet dwa lub trzy, wsp\u00f3lny dom i dzieci nie czyni\u0105 dwojga ludzi RODZIN\u0104.\u00a0 Ani to, \u017ce m\u00f3wi\u0105 o sobie M\u0104\u017b i \u017bONA. Ani to, \u017ce dziel\u0105 si\u0119 opiek\u0105 nad dzie\u0107mi. Nie s\u0105 rodzin\u0105 r\u00f3wnie\u017c ci, kt\u00f3rzy razem je\u017cd\u017c\u0105 na wakacje i razem chodz\u0105 na imprezy. Nie ci, kt\u00f3rzy razem robi\u0105 zakupy. Ani ci, kt\u00f3rzy ka\u017cd\u0105 niedziel\u0119 sp\u0119dzaj\u0105 razem od rana do nocy, wiosn\u0105 wynurzaj\u0105 si\u0119 z domu na wsp\u00f3lne spacery, latem \u201ezaliczaj\u0105\u201d niedzielne rodzinne przeja\u017cd\u017cki rowerowe, jesieni\u0105 wsp\u00f3lnie poszukuj\u0105 w lesie grzyb\u00f3w, a zim\u0105 razem je\u017cd\u017c\u0105 z dzie\u0107mi na kryty basen.\u00a0Je\u015bli jedno \u201ez mi\u0142o\u015bci\u201d tylko daje, a drugie tylko bierze, to te\u017c nie czyni z nich rodziny.<\/span><\/p>\n

Je\u015bli nawet maj\u0105 to wszystko, to wci\u0105\u017c s\u0105 jedynie dwojgiem ludzi, \u017cyj\u0105cych we wsp\u00f3lnym „gnie\u017adzie”. Wci\u0105\u017c s\u0105 pozorantami.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bo rodzina to male\u0144kie pa\u0144stewko, w kt\u00f3rym ka\u017cdy daje co\u015b od siebie, nie oczekuj\u0105c niczego w zamian. Nie musi, bo ta druga osoba robi to samo. Rodzina to „zanim co\u015b zrobi\u0119, upewni\u0119 si\u0119, \u017ce jest to dobre r\u00f3wnie\u017c dla ciebie”. Rodzina jest wtedy, kiedy wsp\u00f3lnych dzieci nie MAMY, tylko wsp\u00f3lnie je wychowujemy.<\/strong> Kiedy nasz dom TWORZYMY<\/strong>, a nie POSIADAMY. <\/span><\/p>\n

Rodzina jest kiedy M\u0104\u017b jest jej m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105, a \u017bONA jego kobiet\u0105. Kiedy na wakacje je\u017cd\u017c\u0105 razem, bo tego chc\u0105, a nie powinni. Kiedy imprezuj\u0105 razem, bo dobrze si\u0119 czuj\u0105 w swoim towarzystwie, a nie realizuj\u0105 wsp\u00f3lne zaproszenia. Kiedy wsp\u00f3lne zakupy s\u0105 dlatego, \u017ce oboje maj\u0105 na nie ochot\u0119, lub istnieje taka obiektywna potrzeba, a nie BO TAK I JU\u017b! Kiedy na t\u0105 wsp\u00f3ln\u0105 niedziel\u0119 po prostu czekaj\u0105 ca\u0142y pracowity tydzie\u0144 i \u0142akn\u0105 jej jak powietrza. I tylko wtedy wsp\u00f3lne wycieczki rowerowe, spacery, wyprawy do lasu i na basen maj\u0105 sens. <\/span><\/p>\n

Je\u015bli s\u0105 rodzin\u0105, to dbaj\u0105 o siebie wzajemnie. Czyli dbaj\u0105 o wzajemny spok\u00f3j, komfort, czyste sumienie, PIEL\u0118GNUJ\u0104 RELACJE UKOCHANEGO\/ UKOCHANEJ Z JEGO\/JEJ NAJBLI\u017bSZYMI, ZAMIAST JE PSU\u0106! S\u0105 ODDZIELNYMI jednostkami i maj\u0105 swoje oddzielne przestrzenie, ale szanuj\u0105 je wewn\u0105trz tej WSP\u00d3LNEJ. <\/span>Je\u015bli tworz\u0105 we dwoje rodzin\u0119 to jest mi\u0119dzy nimi NAMI\u0118TNO\u015a\u0106, a nie WSP\u00d3LNE \u0141\u00d3ZKO\u00a0 i seks raz na jaki\u015b czas…<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

…A KOCHAM CI\u0118 znaczy, \u017ce kocham to kim JESTE\u015a, a nie to co MASZ. <\/span><\/p>\n

KOCHAM CI\u0118 znaczy te\u017c, \u017ce chc\u0119 by\u015b by\u0142a bezpieczna, a nie mia\u0142a drogi samoch\u00f3d, wi\u0119c daj\u0119 ci poczucie bezpiecze\u0144stwa<\/strong>, a nie tylko nowe auto i osiem poduszek powietrznych…<\/span><\/p>\n

Wi\u0119c je\u015bli wydaje Wam si\u0119, \u017ce niby wszystko gra, a jednak czego\u015b brakuje, to by\u0107 mo\u017ce brakuje w\u0142a\u015bnie fundamentu. By\u0107 mo\u017ce brakuje \u201eCHC\u0118 \u017bEBY\u015a BY\u0141\/-A SZCZ\u0118\u015aLIWY\/-A\u201d …<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rodzinne auto, a nawet dwa lub trzy, wsp\u00f3lny dom i dzieci nie czyni\u0105 dwojga ludzi RODZIN\u0104.\u00a0 Ani to, \u017ce m\u00f3wi\u0105 o sobie M\u0104\u017b i \u017bONA. Ani to, \u017ce dziel\u0105 si\u0119 opiek\u0105 nad dzie\u0107mi. Nie s\u0105 rodzin\u0105 r\u00f3wnie\u017c ci, kt\u00f3rzy razem je\u017cd\u017c\u0105 na wakacje i razem chodz\u0105 na imprezy. Nie ci, kt\u00f3rzy razem robi\u0105 zakupy. 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